If you’re planning one of the many beautiful Oahu weddings, one of the biggest decisions you’ll make is when to get married. While Oahu is gorgeous year-round, there are definitely some months that make planning a little easier. If you ask me, May is hands down one of the best times to say “I do.” Between the weather, the smaller crowds, and the overall experience for you and your guests, it’s hard to beat!

One of the biggest reasons I recommend May is the weather. Oahu is coming out of spring, so everything is still lush and green, but you’re usually past the rainiest part of the season. That means you’re more likely to get comfortable temperatures without worrying about constant showers or the intense summer heat. Of course, Hawaii’s weather likes to keep us on our toes, and there’s never a 100% guarantee. But in my experience, May offers some of the most consistent conditions for wedding days. A quick passing shower isn’t uncommon, but they’re often over just as fast as they start.








Another huge advantage of getting married in May is avoiding some of the busiest tourist seasons. Spring break has wrapped up, summer vacations haven’t started yet, and most kids are still in school. That means beaches, hotels, restaurants, and popular attractions tend to feel a little less crowded. This is especially important because many couples turn their wedding into a full vacation or honeymoon. Since Oahu is the most populated Hawaiian island, it naturally attracts a lot of visitors throughout the year. Choosing a quieter month can make the entire experience feel more relaxed, not just for you, but for everyone traveling to celebrate with you!







One of my couples chose to get married in May, and it reminded me exactly why I recommend this month so often. We had one tiny passing sprinkle right before the ceremony, but it lasted only a few minutes and cleared up just in time for everyone to take their seats. Honestly, it couldn’t have worked out better. The rest of the day was incredibly comfortable. No one was battling extreme heat, sweating through portraits, or trying to escape into the shade every chance they got. Guests were able to enjoy cocktail hour, the ceremony, and the celebration without worrying about the weather, which makes such a difference in the overall experience.










Choosing your wedding date isn’t just about finding a day that works on the calendar, it’s about creating the best experience possible for you and everyone celebrating alongside you. While every season in Hawaii has something beautiful to offer, May continues to be one of my favorite months for Oahu weddings because it offers such a great balance of comfortable weather and lighter crowds. If you’re dreaming of an Oahu wedding and want a photographer who knows the island and can help you plan a timeline around the best light, locations, and overall experience, I’d love to be part of your day. Head to my contact page so we can chat about the ideas you have! If you want to learn more about me and what I do, click here. Can’t wait to hear from you!
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